Rose Brucia Stranger Safety Awareness Week in NY State Adopted By Governor Andrew M. Cuomo

On May 7, 2012, NY State Assemblyman Al Graf had his resolution to adopt Rose Brucia Stranger Safety Awareness Week in NY State adopted and signed by NY State Governor Andrew M. Cuomo.  The resolution declares the third week in October each year as “Rose Brucia Stranger Safety Awareness Week”.  The purpose of this declaration is to provide elementary schools with the perfect setting to instruct the free stranger safety awareness program provided by The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation.

The Stranger Safety Awareness Program is a free educational curriculum designed to provide vital, proactive stranger safety awareness techniques to elementary-aged children.  The program includes single-concept video shorts in conjunction with suggested lesson plans, written by teachers, for teachers, to actively involve children in their own safety as it relates to strangers.

According to the U.S. Department of Justice, each year, over 21,700 children are abducted by a stranger. Statistically speaking, that means that one child, per state, per day is taken.  The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation’s goal is to reduce this number!

“Rose Brucia Stranger Safety Awareness Week is the perfect way to open a discussion about stranger safety right before the biggest stranger safety awareness event of the year: Halloween”, says Matthew J. Barbis, Founder & Chairman of The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation. “Our goal is to provide the five days for which our five, age-appropriate lessons can be introduced in elementary schools across New York State. Please go to www.rosebrucia.org/downloads to download your copy of these lessons, free of charge”.

Here is a copy of the actual legislation as found on http://open.nysenate.gov/legislation/api/1.0/html/bill/K1252-2011

K1252-2011:Memorializing Governor Andrew M. Cuomo to proclaim October 22-26, 2012, as Rose Brucia Stranger Safety Awareness Week in the State of New York

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Law Section: Resolutions, Legislative

LEGISLATIVE   RESOLUTION  memorializing  Governor  Andrew  M.  Cuomo  to
 proclaim October 22-26, 2012, as Rose Brucia Stranger  Safety  Awareness
 Week in the State of New York
 WHEREAS, The State of New York takes great pride in recognizing official
 weeks  established  to  increase awareness of serious issues that affect
 the lives of all New Yorkers; and
 WHEREAS, It is the sense  of  this  Legislative  Body  to  memorialize
 Governor Andrew M. Cuomo to proclaim October 22-26, 2012, as Rose Brucia
 Stranger  Safety Awareness Week in the State of New York; each year, the
 third week in October will be declared as Rose  Brucia  Stranger  Safety
 Awareness Week in New York State; and
 WHEREAS, The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation was founded by Matthew
 J.   Barbis when his 11 year-old cousin, Carlie Brucia, was abducted and
 murdered in Sarasota, Florida, in 2004; the Foundation was  named  after
 Rose Brucia, Matthew's grandmother; and
 WHEREAS,  The  mission of the Rose Brucia Educational Foundation is to
 reduce the number of  child  abductions  in  America  by  educating  and
 empowering  young minds with the knowledge necessary to avoid abduction;
 and
 WHEREAS, The Rose Brucia  Educational  Foundation  so  effectively  is
 carrying out its mission by spreading its vital message to all elementa
 ry school-aged children across the State of New York; and
 WHEREAS,  Utilizing  puppets  and  simple self-defense techniques, the
 Rose Brucia Educational Foundation provides elementary schools with  the
 Rose Brucia Stranger Safety Awareness Program at no charge; and
 WHEREAS,  Since  its inception, the Rose Brucia Stranger Safety Aware
 ness Program has been  welcomed  into  the  community  with  open  arms;
 Matthew Barbis's way of life was sadly changed by Carlie's tragedy which
 prompted  him to take serious action and help other children in America;
 and
 WHEREAS, Carlie Brucia's story was highly publicized and today  stands
 as  a call to action for families and individuals everywhere to stand up
 to child predators; and
 WHEREAS, It is the custom of this Legislative Body that  when  founda
 tions  of  such noble aims and accomplishments are brought to our atten
 tion, they should be celebrated and recognized by all  the  citizens  of
 this great Empire State; now, therefore, be it
 RESOLVED,  That  this  Legislative  Body pause in its deliberations to
 memorialize Governor Andrew M. Cuomo to proclaim October 22-26, 2012, as
 Rose Brucia Stranger Safety Awareness Week in the State of New York; and
 be it further
 RESOLVED, That a copy of this Resolution, suitably engrossed, be tran
 smitted to Matthew J. Barbis, Founder, Rose Brucia  Educational  Founda
 tion.
About The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation
Founded by Matthew J. Barbis after his 11-year-old cousin, Carlie Brucia, was abducted and murdered in Sarasota, FL in 2004. The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation’s goal is to reduce the number of child abductions in the U.S. by educating and empowering young minds with the knowledge necessary to avoid abduction. Utilizing puppets and a formalized educational curriculum, the foundation provides elementary-aged children with the Stranger Safety Awareness Program, free of charge. The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization.

Matthew Barbis WPIX Interview

Here is the link to view the WPIX interview of The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation’s Founder & Chairman, Matthew Barbis, as he discusses the important ways for you to teach your children how to stay safe from strangers.  Please feel free to visit our free curriculum available to all parents, teachers and schools across America.

About The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation
Founded by Matthew J. Barbis after his 11-year-old cousin, Carlie Brucia, was abducted and murdered in Sarasota, FL in 2004. The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation’s goal is to reduce the number of child abductions in the U.S. by educating and empowering young minds with the knowledge necessary to avoid abduction. Utilizing puppets and a formalized educational curriculum, the foundation provides elementary-aged children with the Stranger Safety Awareness Program, free of charge. The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization.

“Getting To Know You” – Back to Basics

written by Matthew Barbis

One of the very first lessons that we teach at The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation deals with a proper introduction. Without a proper introduction, we explain, you do not know that person and therefore, that person is a stranger.  It is very important that children are introduced to the people around them – carefully defining who they may trust.

Trust is a very important concept that we must all keep at the forefront of every meaningful relationship in our lives. It is the very concept that holds together family, friendships and even communities as a whole.

Please define, discuss and constantly reinforce the word trust with your children.

Please watch the following video with your children and explain to them how Tad may not trust the students he sees because he doesn’t know them – i.e. he hasn’t been properly introduced to them.

Take notice of how his demeanor changes once he has been introduced and also introduces his friend to everyone.

For our purposes, trust is the act of to depending upon people we know; parents, guardians, friends, relatives, teachers, police, fireman, authority figures. You may demonstrate this to your children by explaining to your children that they rely on mom & dad to prepare their meals for them; to clean the house for them; and most importantly protect them from harm.

Please feel free to download the corresponding lesson plan for “Getting To Know You” on our free curriculum page. The more you practice stranger safety awareness with your children, the better they will be prepared if a dangerous situation presents itself!

About The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation
Founded by Matthew J. Barbis after his 11-year-old cousin, Carlie Brucia, was abducted and murdered in Sarasota, FL in 2004. The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation’s goal is to reduce the number of child abductions in the U.S. by educating and empowering young minds with the knowledge necessary to avoid abduction. Utilizing puppets and a formalized educational curriculum, the foundation provides elementary-aged children with the Stranger Safety Awareness Program, free of charge. The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization.

Henri Barguirdjian & Marianne Lafiteau Host Rose Brucia Event in NYC

Sue Herera, Matthew Barbis, Marianne Lafiteau, Henri Barguirdjian at Rose Brucia NYC Event

written by Chris Vaccaro 2/29/2012

Stranger safety benefit draws A-list crowd, helps raise more awareness.

Graff Diamonds President and CEO Henri Barguirdjian and his wife Marianne Lafiteau hosted The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation for a benefit on the upper east side of Manhattan Wednesday evening to further raise awareness about their cause of stranger safety.

A custom Rose Brucia pin was assembled by Graff with rubies and emeralds and auctioned off during the event, which was also attended by billionaire investor Wilbur Ross, and Peter Lyden, the Chief Philanthropy Officer of the Museum of Natural History, among others.

“Marianne and Henri have become champions for our cause,” said Matthew J. Barbis, the founder and chairman of Rose Brucia. “They have embraced our mission and are wholeheartedly striving to bring more awareness to our program to all parents and elementary schools.

“It means the world to me that Marianne and Henri would think enough of our program and our mission that they would open up their home to us and their friends in order to further the reach of the foundation.”

Sue Herera, the national spokeswoman for Rose Brucia and a host at CNBC, spoke during the gathering about her involvement with the foundation.

“When I found out about the Rose Brucia foundation I immediately wanted to become involved,” she said. “It’s a grassroots effort.”

The overwhelming strides the foundation has taken in the last year, and its core mission of stranger safety had Barguirdjian anxious to help as soon as he attended a previous Rose Brucia function in the Hamptons last summer.

Custom Henri Barguirdjian designed one-of-a-kind Rose Brucia ruby & emerald pin

“It became dear to our hearts very fast,” he said, “and we said we have to continue the momentum.”

About The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation
Founded by Matthew J. Barbis after his 11-year-old cousin, Carlie Brucia, was abducted and murdered in Sarasota, FL in 2004. The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation’s goal is to reduce the number of child abductions in the U.S. by educating and empowering young minds with the knowledge necessary to avoid abduction. Utilizing puppets and a formalized educational curriculum, the foundation provides elementary-aged children with the Stranger Safety Awareness Program, free of charge. The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization.

as seen in:

“Not Too Close Encounters” – Practicing stranger safety at home.

written by Matthew Barbis

Stranger safety awareness begins at home. As a parent, you can never start too early when it comes to teaching your children about safety in your home. You start by teaching what is “hot” – what might burn or hurt your children. You progress to “ouch” – a bump or a bruise.  Perhaps one of the most important safety lessons comes when there is a knock at the door.

Practice with your children about how to properly open the door. 

Teach your child to only open the door only when a parent is present.

Teach your child to ask the person on the other side of the door to identify themselves.

Teach your child how to “mirror” a stranger’s movement if they attempt to cross the threshold of the doorway.

We know it may seem a little early, but children start to express independence around age three.  Answering the door becomes empowering for a child because your child can feel responsible taking on a task normally handled by you. You can help them understand the importance of not doing it without you by practicing the following activities.

A very important lesson to introduce to your children is a safety technique called “mirroring”.  Start by showing your child what happens when they look into a mirror.  Point out that what they see is their reflection.  Make different gestures and show them that their reflection follows everything they do. This is very important for the next step.

Once they understand how their reflection works, you can them show them how to effectively mirror anyone.  A good role-playing exercise is to play “simon says”. Teach them to follow your movements exactly. See if they can pay attention by not saying “simon says” a few times, to get them to listen more intently.  Now that they can copy you, or “mirror” your movements, you may now introduce them to the final step: mirroring a stranger.

Pretend you are the stranger – remind them that they do NOT know you. Explain that they are going to mirror everything you do, but this time backwards.  Your goal is to get them to move away from you with every forward movement you make.  If a stranger takes one step toward your child, they will take a step away from that stranger. If a stranger takes two steps toward your child, teach your child to take two steps away from that stranger. Finally, if a stranger starts to run toward your child, you teach them to run as fast as they can away from that stranger toward an adult they can trust!

By constantly reminding your children about these techniques, you can make stranger safety awareness a daily habit in your home. Please watch our “Not Too Close Encounters” video and feel free to download it’s corresponding lesson plan on our free curriculum page.  The more you practice stranger safety awareness with your children, the better they will be prepared if a dangerous situation presents itself!

About The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation
Founded by Matthew J. Barbis after his 11-year-old cousin, Carlie Brucia, was abducted and murdered in Sarasota, FL in 2004. The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation’s goal is to reduce the number of child abductions in the U.S. by educating and empowering young minds with the knowledge necessary to avoid abduction. Utilizing puppets and a formalized educational curriculum, the foundation provides elementary-aged children with the Stranger Safety Awareness Program, free of charge. The Rose Brucia Educational Foundation is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization.

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